How do you plan for the future of your children ?
There
is no doubt that everyone dreams of a privileged future for his children, and
the matter should not depend on a mere dream, but it must be turned into a plan
for the future, and a child education plan a s a plan for the future, based on
knowledge and study for the sake of raising children properly, paves the way
for building their distinguished future that we hope for them, and each parent
participates in it with education experts, but before starting to develop these
plans, parents must prepare themselves for that task well By attending the
child-rearing plan program, and reading books on raising children properly, the
primary person responsible for implementing the child-rearing program is the
parents, of course, and therefore preparing children for a distinguished future
starts from preparing parents and training them on how to do this well .
Education
scholars believe that there are two basic elements that must be met in a
correct child education plan :
The first element: - Instilling high energy among children .
Parents
must have a parent plan It aims to learn
that the common factor of the world's great, leaders, thinkers, and scientists
is the height of energy, and that their ambitions, dreams and goals were great,
and that they exerted effort and sweat and kept up the nights and endured
difficulties in order to achieve things in the future , and this is done
through motivation, whether in terms of praise and encouragement, or by
rewarding success, and narrating stories of heroes, and success stories of
family members such as grandparents and uncles, so that he considers them a
good example for him, and motivates them to follow their path .
The
second component: - Establishing a well thought out plan .
And
your plan for the future It should be a timetable set by education experts with
the participation of parents, indicating when and how to provide children with
the means and skills necessary for the future, which will be part of their
creative and distinct personality that is consistent with the hoped for future,
and these skills are :-
1- Life skills :
It
is summarized in four areas :
A) Ethics and Values :-
Child
education plan should be interested in building morals and values, such as
honesty, honesty, self-confidence, courage, humility, self-esteem, fairness,
ambition, and appreciation for the efforts of others, and this is done by
telling stories of the great, who were characterized by those characteristics,
or reading books about them, and watching documentaries that deal with their
struggle stories, as they are Set a good example for them .
B) Politeness .
Baby's
future plan should be concerned with literature, such as respecting the old and
kindness to the little one, the cheerfulness of the face, controlling anger and
emotions, treating the poor, the needy, and the weak with compassion and
humility, treating the strong with self-esteem, knowing the appropriate phrases
in different situations .
C) Building relationships .
To
be good at building bridges of cooperation with others, how to maintain good
and beneficial relationships, how to activate them when they fade, to acquire
the skill of working in a team, to know how to select his friends, to set the
appropriate distances in his relationships with others, and how to deal with
his bosses, colleagues and those under Driving him, that's your plan for the
future .
D) Character formation
Does
he have the skill of self-criticism? How does he develop his skills? Is he good
at continuous learning? Is it creative? Is it inspiring to others? Does he
quickly gain the trust of others? Are you fluent in taking the right decision
at the right time? Is he able to solve his problems by himself? How confident
is he in himself? Is his trust in others stemming from reason and logic, or
from emotion? Can he make a plan for the future
Does he come out of his crises with more experience and determination to succeed? Can he live with things in the future that may be unforeseen ?
. 2- Knowledge skills
It is intended to be proficient in the mother tongue, then the languages necessary for the future, such as English and French, and proficiency in dealing with modern technology, such as learning computer skills, whether in terms of proficiency in working on programs or the Internet, programming, web design, or maintenance of computer components, while following up on what is new (Continuous learning) All this must be taken into account when developing a child education plan .
3- Economic Skill
The
child education plan should be Includes financial planning for a baby
He
must be taught how to spend his money properly, as the son can be given a
specific expense every specific period of time, to learn to control his
expenses so that his money does not run out before the specified date, and he
can be instructed to save a certain percentage of all the money he gets, to
benefit from it when necessary, or to collect an amount Specific to start a
small project under the supervision of parents, teach him how to improve his
products, how to work on marketing them, how to negotiate with customers, how
to calculate his profits, and to set plans to spend the money he gets as
profits, how to reinvest part of it, what is the appropriate amount of this
part and how to allocate Part of it is to serve the community, help the poor,
and how he behaves at a loss, and restores his accounts, and how he behaves
when he faces unexpected things in the future .
And here
it is necessary to warn, do not interfere in his work and decisions directly,
but watch him from afar, and let him make mistakes and learn from his mistakes,
in this way you prepare him to be up to the level of responsibility, and he may
be a successful businessman in the future .
4- Mathematical skills .
The
correct child education plan should
include practicing sports, and here he leaves the room to choose the type of
sport he likes, such as playing football, swimming, horse riding, or
self-defense games, such as boxing, karate, judo, or fitness games, such as cycling
and running races, Or athletics, such as carrying weights, where sport is
reflected in the physical health of the individual, as well as mental health
and mental health, as it is a good way to dispose of the tremendous energy that
children and youth have in a beneficial way, instead of being discharged into
illegal matters .
5- skill craft .
Parents'
minds are always focused on teaching their children academic education to
obtain a prestigious academic degree, and they do not think of the importance
of learning
A
craft, the craft that an individual learns is the alternative plan, in the
event that circumstances change in the future unexpectedly, such as layoffs due
to economic depression, wars, or natural disasters. It has as an important
weapon in facing the fluctuations of life conditions, and it is better when
developing plans for the child-rearing program that it contains education in
more than one craft, such as carpentry, construction or car repair, in addition
to school and university education, with good coordination so that none of them
negatively affects The other, where it is better to devote the summer vacation
to learning the craft, and that the study time is divided between taking
lessons and practicing sports .
Important note :-
When
developing a child education plan It must take into account the
individual differences between individuals, and that child in need plan must be
flexible, to suit changing circumstances, and contain alternative plans in case
the original plan cannot be implemented when we encounter things in the future
that we do not know now .
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